March 13, 2008
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BEWARE Hypothetical
If someone paid you 2 million dollars for one night with your spouse would you take it?
It would have to be with their consent of course.
We’ve all seen the movie Indecent Proposal, a million dollars for one night… but we are figuring for inflation here.
Ben and I have two very different answers to this question…
He says absolutely not…
I say if it would provide our family with support and security… sure why not, its just SEX…
So does this make me an immoral idiot? I am not sure.
Does the fact that I don’t believe one night of something physical with someone else would kill what we have make me stupid? Maybe.
Would my Immortal soul burn in HELL if I said “Sure honey, go sleep with someone else.” Some people would say so.
But I want to know what YOU think?
The question is this…
SOMEONE OFFERS YOU TWO MILLION DOLLARS TO HAVE SEX WITH THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE FOR ONE NIGHT… DO YOU TAKE IT?
Comments (72)
I’m with your husband on this one: No Way. There are some things money can’t buy; and the love (or rather, sex) of my husband is one of them. Besides the immorality issue, it’s also just sickening… and, to be honest, it’s plain ole prostitution. No way. I’d rather be poor, thanks.
Yman I dont know if I were sooo hard up I guess so, there would be a legal sheet 10 miles long though if I did.
2 million dollars can go a long way…..I’m pretty sure I’ll need the husband before I can do it though
Hell yes!
Even if I had the love of my life I would not take the 2 million dollars for someone to have sex with them for one night.
Let me amend that:
Get the 2mil first! LOL!
i think i would do it.. but i also think i like money too much. also, i dont have a hubby so i may be thinking its easier than it is…
I’m with Ben. I don’t think that I would consent to something like that. I think that just knowing she had been with someone else for money would drive me to distraction. What if the situation was reversed? Would you feel the same way?
hmmmmm seems your mind is preoccupied with sex for money lately.
Price of gas getting to you?
If he was the love of my life, certainly!!
I am extremely jealous when it comes to these sorts of things… I would say no… but also I think if it were me, I couldn’t do it… I would just feel… used… so all the way around no… I don’t think money is that big a deal to tarnish something special
NO!!!!
I don’t know if I could quit laughing long enough to answer.
I wouldn’t do it either…it goes against everything I believe in. First I’d never be able to be with Phil again knowing that he had been with someone else while he was with me…even if it were just for the money. Second I truly despise the control that money has on people…myself included. Yes, it is just sex….but I find that once that bond is broken between two people it just snowballs a crap load of relationship problems. I’ve got a great relationship that I wouldn’t be willing to sacrifice for financial security. So I agree with Ben on this one.
Maybe I am immoral, but Id take it. One night is a TINY price to pay to have my husband all to myself for the rest of our lives. If you know someone making this offer, please refer them to my site.
how would you feel if it was your husband who would spend one night with someone else?
and, would he do that fopr 2 million dollars.
I’ll never find out I suppose, but they say money canät buy happinsee, not even 2 miliion dollars.
But _ i don’t think you’re immoral. I think lots of women have actually dones simliar things throughout history. Sort of a self-scariface thing. But with risks involved.
I don’t see why not.
Everyone wins.
Its not like I’m choosing video games over them or something.
XD
Now if someone offered 2 million to have sex with me?? They would be really desperate!! I don’t think your soul would burn in hell, but I am not sure I want to open the door for the next time he just looks good.
@Kilkennys_Pub - NO… the question is… would you let Sandy sleep with someone else… makes it a little different…
I know I was just dodging the issue.
I don’t think so.. because once the door to infidelity is opened it can’t be closed and just swing wider open and isn’t that the definition of a whore, one who takes money for sex?
sorry, I misunderstood the questíon as well..
then. no I would d ot want my partner to do that
hummmmmm……two million bucks is alot of money…. I’m thinkin -I’m thinkin………after all it’s just sex….(I remember thinking just sex hell when I heard a friend say that) I don’t know ang…I’m going to check my horrorscope and see what it says before I answer!
…ilym
and no you are not an immoral idiot – I don’t want to hear you say that again young lady! I also don’t think your old enough to remember the Kinks
Also I didn’t use my telescope (ha I used scope twice) I can’t get it to focus (maybe I’m lookin in the wrong end
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I suppose I would sell my Ex husband for a lot less than 2 mil!
Absolutely not. In the back of my head I’d always be wondering if he still thinks about her. Plus I’m not a pimp mack daddy.
Yay Kinks!
hm…. id agree to it for him to sleep with the payer, but i don’t know if id agree to doing to stranger myself
women getting paid for sex is always a bit more complicated…
I could be pragmatic and say to myself “if I say this has no meaning, it has no meaning.”… I could swear the act itself can be reduced to something as basic as any other bodily function. If I had a partner who would agree , I could proceed on only to find out I guessed wrong Sometimes the heart rules even when logic tries its best to make it submit….
.I think its not the issue of sex that makes it a bad deal ,its the idea that the one offering it is not into sex as much as power ,and those kind of people never know when to quit….I would want nothing to do with that kind of misshapen character… that kind of person is what I call a creep.. I would pass on it . Money truly has its limits as well… it can open up a real can of worms.
No! First I’m too jealous. Second, if they had that kinda money to throw away one time imagine how easy it would be for him to move on in and have that kind of money all the time. And how jealous I would be of that! : )
Nope, I would do a lot for 2 Million, but to give Gene the “go ahead” and let him be with another, nope, I could never enjoy the money, or stop wondering what it was like! I think I’ll get the 2 million the old fashioned way…I’ll win the lottery!!!
You sure got sex and money on the brain, you have been reading about the Mr. Ex- Governor haven’t you???
I think it’s easy to say that you wouldn’t do it, or allow your spouse to do it because of the morality issues. But when 2 million is staring you in the face, it would be hard to say no. I would consent to my husband doing it, because that much money would give him a reason to quit work. I’m not a jealous person, I know he loves me, and I don’t think one night of sex under those circumstances would change our 26 year relationship. I think he would say the same thing, if someone wanted to pay that much for one night with me. He’s never been a jealous person either. That probably makes us immoral freaks!
This is a really hard question. Who couldn’t use that kinda cash? Honestly, that’s a ton of money, but I wouldn’t be able to get past my guy sleeping with someone else. When we first got together 10 yrs ago, I told him, if you ever feel the need to sleep with someone else, have some respect for me and dump me first, because regardless of how much I love him, if he cheats, we’re done. Period. So my answer would be no.
@Kilkennys_Pub - Ouch… I see why you were dodging it. lol
You have a VERY good point on the infidelity door thing! Thanks Vern!
In a New York minute, honey! Hell, I’d sell a night with him a lot cheaper than that. I would probably go as low as 50k! And I’m sure he would say the same about me.
I never saw the movie but remember well the premise.
We are so hard up financial that we would be absolute idiots not to.
So if any of you rich xanga ladies want a night with my Mike for the low, low price of $50,000.00, hit me up and we’ll arrange it.
I would like to think that the love of my life if my hubby, but I get the question. My answer is this: I would absolutely not, for any amount of money, have sex with someone who was not my husband while I was married. There are obviously a few loopholes in this response. First, if I’m not married, I would do it. I would also have sex with someone outside my marriage to the save the life of one of my kids. I would, however, send my hubby to a one-nighter for the money. I don’t think it would harm the relationship at all. Even if it did, 2 million could sure pay for a lot of counseling.
Another tough question!
Initial reaction is to accept the offer. 2 million dollars goes a long way.
I guess you could always repent later.
No way!
ryc~Thanks!
If someone wanted to have sex with my husband, after I stopped laughing, I’d say go ahead. I know that he loves me and two million is a lot of money. BUT … he, on the other hand, would probably not do it.
@ok123LetsGO - wow! I can’t believe how similiar we are! I feel the same way as you!
I don’t think I could, I would always have that picture in my head of him with another woman. I don’t even like it when I dream he’s cheated on me so why in the world would I give him permission? He’s mine and that’s all there is to it, no amount of money is worth tearing down or cheapening what we have built over the last 25 years.
That sure is a lot of money!
I wish!
$2,000,000?
For one night?
I just asked my wife, she says it depends on who it is…
Who cares for $2,000,000.
As long as she was willing, why should I stand between her and my $2,000,000?
Besides I would have $2,000,000… Uh that would be in cash right? Low denomination bills… no taxes right?
Oh! Wait! My wife just held up a lottery ticket, and we might not have to whore each other out after all… I have to go check the numbers…
Later!
Bah! we didn’t win… so where do we sign up for this $2,000,000 spouse rental?
Depends if they know the person. If it was someone that we both mutually knew, well, then probably not. I’d be one of those paranoids thinking to myself, “They don’t love me anymore! Sad face!” While if it was some stranger, and they didn’t have a STD, and the other person was totally for it… then 2 million dollars would solidify a future for at least a little while, if spent frugally. Interesting thought.
If you were truly in love with your spouse, I think it would ultimately damage the relationship.
dan
I guess I am shallow. I would do it.
Well, since I’m not married (or have ever even had a girlfriend for that matter) I don’t know how long this opinion will remain. Either way, at this point in life I would say absolutely not. I believe that God puts us in the situations we’re in for our own good, and if we’re suffering at the time, we shouldn’t complain. If there’s an option of getting out of that suffering I think it’s fine to take it, but not if it causes you to sin. Sex (again, I’m not married so this is based off of what I’ve come to know through my own study of the Bible) is specially created by God for one man and one woman, who are married, with no exceptions.
Obviously if you’ve given your life to Christ then no, you’re not going to burn for eternity in hell for sinning. Even so, it’s sin, an easily avoidable sin, and that two million dollars is not going to mean anything when you’re no longer here.
I keep seeing the idea of ends justifying the means come up all over the place lately, it’s a little strange.
There are many reasons to say no – I already have an awesome boyfriend. US$ 2mn is not THAT much. And lastly and most importantly, MY REPUTATION. No thank you, then.
I would have to say no to this one. Personally I have a bit of a jelous streak, nothing too bad, but when I think of my honey with some other woman it just makes me mad. I don’t want no other woman touching my Brian! I like having him all to myself. Also, I think a relationship is hard enough as it is without having to add in infidelity, even if it is paid for and planned. There are some things that are worth more than money.
I don’t think you’re a immoral idiot. Everyone has different relationships with thier spouse, so if you were both okay with it and your marriage survived…then heck why not? You would be 2 million richer and apparently not bothered. Great Question!
@AllieMcNally - Oh… I’m not sure I wouldn’t be bothered… THat’s the thing about hypothetical questions… it’s always easy to say one thing… but when faced with the reality o something feel a completly different way. lol
There’s all sorts of things wrong with that scenario. First, one partner gets the money and the OTHER partner is the one who pays with his or her body. Even if it is for one night, it is still the equivalent of selling someone into a kind of slavery. Second, I believe that sort of arrangement would create lasting problems related to “Just whose money is that? Who earned it?” kind of issues. Third, although I don’t necessarily believe that adultery will send someone straight to hell, I do believe that, even under the assumption that you had given permission (obviously, since you took the money), there would ultimately be a loss of trust that would seriously undermine the relationship after the act had taken place, and over time. So I vote with Ben. . .
That’s true angi, that is the beauty of hypothetical questions, you never actually have to make a decision. You never know, I could be totally fine with it if it were to actually happen… but I highly doubt it!
) It is interesting to see everyone’s responces though isn’t it?
@AllieMcNally - Oh I am having GREAT FUN! lol
Thanks Allie!
I would … who’s asking? I’ll do it for about half that…. I don’t think any relationship would withstand it though
They just added them after a $400 million deal and years of arguing.
Not like it hasn’t come up in jovial converation
Is it tax free?
No,there would be no blessing from God on adultry and so if I had 2 million dollars but no blessing I would not really be happy spending it anyway.
I want God’s blessing .
But if you are talkin about Woody Harrelson or Robert Redford I am going for Redford!
@seedsower - Yeah… I’m a Redford girl myself… I loved him in Sneakers… well and a lot of other things… but that one especially for some reason…
I loved ‘Barefoot in the Park’ and ‘Sneakers’!
Ha ,I just realized they go together …foot themes.
Nope, my relationship with my husband is priceless.
I’d do it for free
I dunno. Maybe. Nah. AH. Depends how much money we needed. I mean does this mean the girl is stalking my man and buying us the good business opportunitya nd my beautiful architecture house is on the block and all my other dreams are shattered? I just lost all my money in Vegas. Then maybe. I’d think about it.
Yeah definitely. Because the love of my life is Susan Dey and she still has a restraining order against me. So I’m figuring this will be an easy two mil.
@thankee - Yeah! That’s a lot easier question.
But…I dunno. It would depend on the chemistry between them….or something. I just don’t know.
You have 66 comments for this one. Correction: 67 including mine. Sex sure brings in the conversation! I wouldn’t do it for the money. I may consider it if it is to protect a life.
OMG LOL this is the wrong night for me to read this post because if i had to answer right now i would say “ 5 mil ” and bargin down although I have had a couple glasses of brandy straight ( three i think) although he has pissed me off quite a few times tonight already. now if this is a night when i havent had the brandy and he hadnt pissed me off i might say 1mil or no????? (I LOVE HIM ???) lol but seriously i really dont think i could go through with it i would be sitting back thinking is he enjoying it,does he like it better with that person than with me,then i would freak out and hurt him so i guess the jury is stillout onthat one.
hmm, i’m abit late to read this post.. But I think I won’t! I am too jealous. lol.
I am a little late on posting a comment as well…but I like boasting my opinion in other people’s faces so here goes: To me it has a lot to do with the security of people involved with their relationship, what their ideals on the importance of sex is to the relationship and how well they can deal with it afterwards…if it is a major threat to a persons deep values and beliefs which in most cases it is yes it will be a problem for all parties involved. Most people and myself is included would never know how they would feel AFTER because most people have never had the lucky opportunity to enjoy such a fate. I see it as a test of dicipline…do you take the golden egg or try to find another goose?
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